M is for Mum.


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Before writing about my Mum I must  say thank you to lots more comments on the K for Kenton blog post that I found a day late. Many people are sad to see so many blog writers dropping out and in 10 years of blogging I’ve never seen this happening before.

Also hello and welcome to another person who has clicked the follower button – creeping towards 800!

 I don’t often mention my mum on the blog, she died in 1999 age just 73.  

She was born in 1926 the second oldest of 6 children. Her father worked in a factory that gave him a lung disease, he smoked untipped cigarettes and he was often ill. He died young. Her mother was tired and old from looking after a family on limited money. When Grandma  got her pension she said it was more money than she’d ever had before. Mum’s youngest brother died from Leukaemia when he was just 4 years old. 

Mum’s older sister passed the eleven plus and so did mum and her younger sister. The family struggled to afford the uniforms for Grammar School. Mum said she felt guilty that her mother had gone without things so the girls had correct uniform. She left school and went to work in the lab at ICI in Stowmarket as a paint tester. 

Mum became a widow when she was pregnant with me at age just 28. Although she married my real dads older brother after 3 years on her own with me, I’m not sure she was ever happy.

She had rheumatoid arthritis for more than 20 years – there wasn’t much help for it back then and she was in constant pain – and she had  breast cancer and a mastectomy during that time but wouldn’t go back for any follow up treatment. Constant infections in her hip joint meant they took it away, then she was chair and bed bound, having to be hoisted up and down for the last years of her life. 
She absolutely hated her dependence on Dad and her carers.

She was never a ‘best friend’ as I hear other people saying about their mothers and I was definitely not a good daughter.

Mum in younger, happier times

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Sue



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